Therapy • Self-Mastery • Phase 2
Introduction
Yesterday marked 24 hours since my Therapy Session: Managing Hypochondria the 100-Man Way.
This time, I didn’t spiral or overanalyze — I simply applied the plan. I revisited both spots I’d been worried about, used my checklist, and stayed grounded. What I found wasn’t fear; it was proof that calm works.
Step 1 – Grounding Before the Check
Before looking in the mirror, I paused and reminded myself:
“I’m doing this once, calmly, for information — not reassurance.”
That one sentence changed everything. The goal wasn’t to find something wrong; it was to stay objective.
Step 2 – The Forehead Spot
I saw the area under normal light.
No pain. No bleeding. No oozing. Just dry skin with a small cracked edge — exactly what healing looks like after a shaving nick.
I realized I’d cut myself weeks ago and the skin was finishing its repair.
The anxious part of me said “But what if …”; the rational part answered “This is recovery, not danger.”
Step 3 – The Wrist Spot
Still new, still small, still calm.
No redness, swelling, or pain — so it moved firmly into “observe” status.
No more checking every few hours; just once a week from here.
Step 4 – Health-Check Decision Map in Action
Both spots passed the test: not painful, not growing, not bleeding, not changing fast.
So I stayed in observe mode and chose physical grounding instead of more mental checking.
I closed the session with movement — a walk and stretch — to remind my body that peace is physical too.
Step 5 – What I Learned
The 100-Man Way isn’t about never worrying; it’s about responding with structure instead of fear.
Each time I resist the urge to Google or over-inspect, I strengthen that inner muscle of calm.
I don’t need certainty to feel safe. I just need presence.
Closing Reflection
Yesterday proved that therapy doesn’t end when the session does — it lives in the follow-up.
My forehead isn’t the story anymore; my response is.
That’s the real healing: when the focus shifts from the mark on your skin to the mark of discipline you leave on your mind.

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